<i>"Intimate Connections</i> is a richly ethnographic account of women's and men's experiences of kinship and sexuality in Gilgit-Baltistan, Pakistan, showing how young women's changing expectations of marriage and love are reforming the institution from within."— Katherine Lemons, author of Divorcing Traditions: Islamic Marriage Law and the Making of Indian Secularism<br /> "<i>Intimate Connections</i> is an elegant and nuanced ethnographic account of gendered intimacy as experienced by women in Gilgit-Baltistan, Pakistan. Eschewing simplistic formulations such as 'love vs. arranged marriages' and 'agency vs. gendered subordination,' Anna-Maria Walter instead pushes us to consider emotions anew, in particular 'love,' as sites of embodied, ethical formation of the self, and as significant to gendered norms that shape marriage and emergent forms of conjugality."— Attiya Ahmad, author of Everyday Conversions: Islam, Domestic Work and South Asian Migrant Women in Kuwait<br />

Intimate Connections dissects ideas, feelings, and practices around love, marriage, and respectability in the remote high mountains of Gilgit-Baltistan in northern Pakistan. It offers insightful perspectives from the emotional lives of Shia women and their active engagement with their husbands. These gender relations are shaped by countless factors, including embodied values of modesty and honor, vernacular fairy tales and Bollywood movies, Islamic revivalism and development initiatives. In particular, the advent of media and communication technologies has left a mark on (pre)marital relations in both South Asia and the wider Muslim world. Juxtaposing different understandings of 'love' reveals rich and manifold worlds of courtship, elopements, family dynamics, and more or less affectionate matches that are nowadays often initiated through SMS. Deep ethnographic accounts trace the relationships between young couples to show how Muslim women in a globalized world dynamically frame and negotiate circumstances in their lives.
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Dissects ideas, feelings, and practices around love, marriage, and respectability in the remote high mountains of Gilgit-Baltistan in northern Pakistan. The book offers insightful perspectives from the emotional lives of Shia women and their active engagement with their husbands.
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List of Illustrations
Series Foreword by Péter Berta
Preface and Acknowledgments
Note on Transcription
1 Politics of the Sensible
2 Embodying Modest Reserve
3 Arranging Affection
4 Fearing Passion
5 Romancing Marriage
Glossary
Notes
References
Index
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Product details

ISBN
9781978820487
Published
2021-12-10
Publisher
Rutgers University Press
Weight
50 gr
Height
229 mm
Width
152 mm
Thickness
18 mm
Age
01, U, 05
Language
Product language
Engelsk
Format
Product format
Heftet
Number of pages
244

Biographical note

ANNA-MARIA WALTER is a postdoctoral fellow at the University of Oulu in Finland and is part of an interdisciplinary team working on conservation, tourism, and remoteness in Europe. She lives in Munich, Germany.