"A superb and iconoclastic critique of the history of heterosexuality." - Richard Horton, New York Review of Books "Engaging... important.... Among the best books I have read on sexual identity.... It can change the way you think about sex and gender, about yourself, and about whom you might become." - Louise DeSalvo, Los Angeles Times "Lively and provocative." - Carol Tavris, New York Times Book Review "A valuable primer [that] misses no significant twists in sexual politics." - Gary Indiana, Village Voice Literary Supplement "One of the most important - if not outright subversive - works to emerge from gay and lesbian studies in years." - Mark Thompson, Advocate"