This is without question the most exciting therapy book I have read in years...By sifting, sorting and synthesizing the breadth of different therapeutic approaches, Allen delivers a brilliant book about trauma written with a common touch that will leave your brain fizzing. I cannot recommend it enough. Andrew Barley, Therapy Today April 2013 Dr. Allen provides a valuable description of the forms of attachment, including how they manifest in child-caregiver interactions and adult relationships. Fredric Busch, M.D., Weill Cornell Medical College and Columbia University Center fir Psychoanalytic Training and Research
Dr. Allen provides an extremely engaging and useful call for therapists to reflect carefully before they underestimate the value of "plain old therapy" when working the clients who have experienced relational psychological trauma. But what he describes is much more than just plain old therapy, it is a complex (but eminently practical) distillation of the core principles and practices that make all the newer "evidence-based" therapies effective—above all a vital (and in Dr. Allen's words, "humbling") reminder to therapists to first mentalize, then empathize, and only then (if at all) rely on therapeutic techniques.