âExtraordinary. A calm, methodical, painstakingly researched, and important book that should be read by parents and educators alike.â
New York Times
âOne of the most essential . . . reads in recent memory.â
Atlanta Journal-Constitution
âHeartbreaking. . . . A brave and unequivocating book, as important as Susan Brownmillerâs <i>Against Our Will</i>.â
Newsday
"A shocking and horrifying example of cultural dysfunction that, the author asserts, is not limited to Glen Ridge."Â
Kirkus Reviews
"Parents, teachers, and others need to understand what Lefkowitz so capably exposes about the 'All-American' male cultural setting. Highly recommended for a broad readership."
Library Journal
"Lefkowitz has written a compelling account of the incident and the resulting trials. He examines a part of American culture that appears to condone wildness and aggression in its young males and passive servitude in the females. . . . Highly recommended."Â
Booklist
"This passionate, compassionate true-crime tale looks past the perps and their coconspirators to indict an entire way of life."
Entertainment Weekly
A Los Angeles Times Prize Finalist
An Edgar Award Finalist
"In this gripping book, Lefkowitz takes one single eventâthe brutal sexual assault on a slightly retarded young woman by several high profile high school athletes in suburban New Jerseyâand brings his readers face to face with the smug arrogance of predatory male sexual entitlement. And he does it not with a sweeping analysis but with a novelist's eye for precise detail, a tightly wound tale, elegantly told."âMichael Kimmel, author of Manhood in America
"Lefkowitz provides a graphic, faithful account of an amazing caseâamazing because of the community's reaction to 'our guys' and the suspiciously drawn-out trial. Its true-crime approach could make Our Guys a bestseller."âPeggy Sanday, author of A Woman Scored: Acquaintance Rape on Trial