�This inventive text demonstrates that �ghosting,� widely perceived as an unfortunate side-effect of an increasingly mediated world, speaks to a more fundamental human absence. Surveying an impressive array of literature, philosophy, and media theory, Pettman convincingly adds �ghosting� to our century's collective process of melancholy and mourning.�<br /><b>Jeffrey Sconce, author of <i>Haunted Media: Electronic Presence from Telegraphy to Television</i></b><br /><br />�This is a unique and compelling book current, contemporary, and extremely well written. The author has a gift for exploring this topic like he is telling a story. He sheds fresh light on what is an everyday experience for us all.�<br /><b>Zizi A. Papacharissi, author of <i>Affective Publics: Sentiment, Technology and</i> Politics<br /><br /></b>"It is easier than ever to communicate with other people � and to deliberately ignore them. In his book, Ghosting, Dominic Pettman lays down the rules of disengagement... I know I'm not the only one who will be glad someone finally put that strange feeling into words."<br /><b>Ceci Browning, <i>The Sunday</i> Times<br /><br /></b>�<i>Ghosting: On Disappearance</i>, takes a philosophical look at people vanishing, and how ghosting each other has replaced traditional ghosts, in whom we tend to no longer believe.�<br /><i><b>Irish Examiner</b></i> <p> "Pettman's book might best be read as comfort for the ghosted, providing a conceptual framework and a history of the idea. (You are not the first to be ghosted, and you won't be the last.)" <br /> <b>Kyle Chayka, <i>The New Yorker</i></b> </p><p> "Pettman is alert to the sadism of gratuitous ghosting, the pernicious brand of paranoia, social and personal, it encourages, and to its links to the selfish satisfactions of domination and indifference." <br /> <b>The Arts Fuse</b></p>
Ghosting creates an empty space in our minds: a space faithfully tracing the silhouette of the one who ghosted us. But unlike traditional ghosts, today’s ghosters simply disappear, leaving behind a form of haunting that is closer to mourning: mourning for someone who is not in fact dead. In putting a kind of preemptive mourning into our everyday affairs, ghosting tells us much about the current human relationship – or non-relationship – to a shared sense of mortality, purpose, and spirit.
This book – the first sustained analysis of ghosting – traces the source of this vexed experience to, and through, our current media ecology, technological networks, political landscape, collective psychology, romantic mantras, and deep sense of social neglect.
Introduction
Chapter One – Romantic Ghosting
Chapter Two – Familial and Platonic Ghosting
Chapter Three – Professional and Social Ghosting
(In)Conclusion – In Lieu of Closure
Coda – The Ghosting in the Machine