Alan Cohen shows us how to approach relationship parting in a way that bestows us with strength and empowerment, rather than pain and sadness. Alan tells us that we should define the success of a relationship by the quality of aliveness we experienced while the relationship thrived, and that although you may no longer have romantic love for each other, you can have a spiritual love that can endure forever. He calls this kind of love "Big Love." "Big Lovers recognize that the key to enjoying a better relationship with your next partner is to appreciate the last one—for both the joys you shared and what you learned through the challenges." If you are ready to move from fear and separateness to mutual empowerment,— if you are ready to grow beyond strife, —this book offers you a new vision and many tools to live by.