There are many powerful grief memoirs and even more books about the craft of writing, but <i>Wonder & Loss</i> is the first book to help readers as they struggle with grief and write their own stories about love and loss. Sam Meekings shows, in fascinating detail, that the story of his younger brother’s early death is different from writing the story itself. Both stories are hauntingly brought to life in this beautifully written and memorable book.
Jeffrey Berman, Distinguished Teaching Professor, University at Albany, SUNY, USA
A captivating approach to a universal yet entirely personal subject.
University of Oxford
A braided memoir that interweaves the author’s personal journey through grief with a guide on how to write about it, this book is both Sam Meekings’ raw account of the death of his younger brother and a step-by-step breakdown of the memoir writing process. With a twin focus on how to heal and preserve precious memories whilst exploring the mechanics of writing about the self, Wonder and Loss uses personal story, writing theories, useful strategies and detailed prompts to invite the reader to write alongside Sam on a path that is both painful and profound.
One of the most straightforward approaches to writing memoir put to page, Sam Meekings breaks down the craft of personal narrative into understandable steps and considerations, and provides a sequence of actions and suggestions that are both practical and motivating. Allowing readers to take control of their own stories, this book shares references to related works as well as new theories from the worlds of neuroscience, neurology, psychology and creative writing, translating them into processes writers can use to remember those lost and to rediscover themselves. Compellingly honest and an introspective look at the transformation through grief and loss as it’s written, readers will learn to both honour and record the memories of those they mourn, and to rediscover the person they are and can be.
Introduction
Part I: Writing as Discovery
Chapter 1: Beginnings
Chapter 2: Writing into the Dark
Chapter 3: Setting Myself on Fire
Chapter 4: Home/Sickness
Chapter 5: Ten Ways of Thinking about the Body
Chapter 6: Palimpsest
Part II: Writing as Transformation
Chapter 7: Forgiveness
Chapter 8: Metaphor
Chapter 9: Embracing Failure
Chapter 10: Transformations
[Midpoint Self-assessment]
Part III: Writing as Renewal
Chapter 11: Fable and Myth
Chapter 12: Personal Ecology
Chapter 13: Writing the Unknown
Chapter 14: Returning to Childhood
Chapter 15: Dreams and the Unconscious
Part IV: Writing as Magic
Chapter 16: Talking with Ghosts
Chapter 17: Pleasures and Passions
Chapter 18: Poetic Tools
Chapter 19: Summoning
Chapter 20: Endings
Conclusion
Additional Resources
Annotated Bibliography
Index